Month: March 2024

The Gunslinger

Background

“The Gunslinger” is the first book in Stephen King’s “The Dark Tower” series. It introduces readers to Roland Deschain, the last gunslinger, who is on a quest to catch the mysterious “man in black” and find the Dark Tower, a mythical structure that is the nexus of all universes. The story is set in a world that is a blend of Old West motifs and magical fantasy. Roland’s journey takes him through desolate towns and across barren landscapes, meeting various characters who either help or hinder his quest.

The Gunslinger
The Gunslinger

My Thoughts

I really didn’t enjoy this book. It seemed crass in the same way a junior high kid sees the world. Perhaps the rest of the series would redeem it, but I won’t be finishing it. There were some interesting ideas with the backstory of the gunslinger, but again, the power struggle between him and his mentor felt like the perspective and mindset of a teenager. This caused a lack of empathy for the character and general loss of interest on my part. It was no surprise when I learned this was one of King’s first books.

Recommend

Skip this one

The Four: The Hidden DNA of Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google

Background

Published in 2017, “The Four: The Hidden DNA of Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google,” written by Scott Galloway, is a critical analysis of how these four tech giants have come to dominate the global economy and influence nearly every aspect of our lives. Galloway explores the unique strategies and core business practices that have enabled Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google to achieve unparalleled growth and market power. The book provides insights into the companies’ impact on innovation, competition, and consumer behavior, as well as their role in reshaping industries and cultural norms. Galloway also examines the challenges and responsibilities these companies face given their monumental influence, offering a thought-provoking perspective on the future of technology and its intersection with society and the economy.

The Four: The Hidden DNA of Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google
The Four: The Hidden DNA of Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google

My Thoughts

It is very interesting to read this book 6 years in the future from when it was written. Some of what he said remained true and some didn’t quite turn out the way he anticipated. In fairness, it’s hard to see a global pandemic and the changes forcing everyone to stay home made on the market.

Recommendation

Still a good book even though it doesn’t quite hold up.

Leaders Eat Last

Background

Published in 2014, “Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don’t,” by Simon Sinek, explores the foundational elements of great leadership and successful teams. Sinek delves into the biology of leadership, explaining how leaders can create environments where people feel safe, cooperate, and dedicate themselves to collective success. Drawing on real-life stories and scientific research, he illustrates why leaders who prioritize the well-being of their teams foster trust and collaboration, leading to more resilient and innovative organizations. The book underscores the importance of empathy and self-sacrifice in leadership, arguing that when leaders put their team’s needs first, they unlock the potential for extraordinary achievements. Sinek’s work offers a compelling roadmap for anyone looking to inspire loyalty, build stronger teams, and lead with a sense of purpose.

Leaders Eat Last
Leaders Eat Last

My Thoughts

Unlike “The Four”, this book seems to have withstood the test of time a little bit better. The forward was from Marine General Flinn, who gained some notoriety back in those days. No wonder this book was suggested to me by a Marine officer…

Recommendation

Good book with some solid ideas about inspiring others.

Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy

Background

Published in 2000, “Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy,” by Stephen E. Lamb and Douglas E. Brinley, provides a thoughtful exploration of the physical and emotional aspects of marital intimacy through the lens of gospel teachings. The authors delve into how couples can enhance their marital relationship by aligning their intimate lives with their spiritual beliefs, emphasizing communication, mutual respect, and love. The book addresses common challenges and questions couples may have, offering guidance and insights based on scriptural doctrines and the teachings of modern-day church leaders. It aims to help couples build a stronger, more fulfilling marriage by integrating their faith with their personal relationship, particularly in the context of intimacy, which is often considered a taboo subject in religious discussions. Through practical advice and spiritual encouragement, the book seeks to empower couples to nurture a deep, lasting connection that harmonizes their physical and spiritual union.

Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy
Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy

My Thoughts

Sex is one of the most taboo things that seems to be in everyone’s face. Pornographic images and videos are all over the place and none of them help a married couple because it isn’t real. Suspending for a second that the whole point of porn is to debase people in order to make money, even the most realistic depictions of sexual acts does not help married couples grow closer together. They need to walk that road themselves and discover themselves and each other in the process.

Recommendation

Certainly not the definitive source but it was a good book.

Start With Why

Background

Published in 2009, “Start With Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action,” by Simon Sinek, introduces a powerful model for inspirational leadership centered on a vital question: “Why?” Sinek argues that organizations are more successful, influential, and innovative when they clarify their fundamental purpose or belief before addressing how they do what they do or what they do. He illustrates his point with a variety of real-world examples from renowned leaders and organizations that have found profound success by starting with their ‘why.’ The book emphasizes the significance of connecting with people emotionally by articulating and believing in a cause greater than the sum of the organization’s activities. Sinek’s insights encourage leaders and companies to focus on why they exist to inspire action, attract loyal supporters, and achieve enduring success, transforming the way they think about their work and leadership.

Start With Why
Start With Why

My Thoughts

Oddly enough, this book couldn’t have come at a better time. I am winding down a project that was handed to me over four years ago. It took the majority of my department to keep it going and it has finally been completely de-funded. We will execute the program for another couple of months, but my whole department has been wondering what is next. Frankly, so have I. My leadership has been all over the map recently and I haven’t been given a firm intent moving forward. Given the mix of personnel I have left and the funding we have, there really is just one choice and I’ve been angling in that direction for over a year now.

Although, in my heart I knew what needed to be done, this book reminded me that I should look a little harder. My team needs to know the things I’ve known for years since I’ve been in this position. They need to know why and really feel it.

Recommendation

It’s is a good book that is still relevant today.

Listen: On Music Sound and Us

Background

Published in 2023, “Listen: On Music, Sound, and Us,” by Mark Doffman is an insightful exploration into the world of music and sound and how they profoundly influence our lives. Doffman delves into the essence of listening, examining how we interact with sounds and music, and what these interactions reveal about our humanity. The book interweaves personal stories, scientific research, and cultural analysis to demonstrate how sound and music shape our experiences, relationships, and identities. Through a series of engaging narratives, Doffman invites readers to reconsider their auditory experiences and the role of listening in understanding the world and connecting with others. This work is not just about music’s aesthetic and cultural dimensions but also about its power to affect us on deeply personal and universal levels.

Listen: On Music Sound and Us
Listen: On Music Sound and Us

My Thoughts

This book was a novel approach in that it didn’t judge whatever anyone enjoyed. I found myself reflecting on past experiences with the intent just to enjoy it. That in itself was worth the read.

Recommendation

Good read.

A Stinky History of Toilets

Background

“A Stinky History of Toilets” is an engaging and educational book that delves into the fascinating evolution of toilets throughout history. With a blend of humor and fact, the book explores how different cultures have approached sanitation and the technological advancements that have led to the modern bathroom. From ancient latrines and the elaborate sewer systems of Rome to the inventiveness of the Victorian era and beyond, the narrative offers readers a unique perspective on a subject often taken for granted. This book not only provides a historical overview but also sheds light on the social and environmental implications of toilets, highlighting their critical role in public health and hygiene. With its entertaining style and informative content, “A Stinky History of Toilets” makes the history of this essential invention accessible and interesting to a wide audience, revealing the profound impact toilets have had on civilization and daily life.

A Stinky History of Toilets
A Stinky History of Toilets

My Thoughts

Toilets are one of those things we miss when we are without them. I have always been fascinated by the cultural differences in this very human activity. From the Captain Kirkish seats in Japan to the simple hole in the ground, we all have to go sometime. Even in my area, I have friends who live and die by their toilet seat bidets and swear their lives are the better for it. While I haven’t jumped on the bandwagon, I think it is a good idea to know your way isn’t the only way.

Recommendation

This was a fun book written in a simple style to educate everyone.

Napalm and Silly Putty

Background

Published in 2001, “Napalm and Silly Putty” is a collection of the sharp, witty, and often profound observations of George Carlin, one of America’s most iconic comedians. The book captures Carlin’s unique voice, offering a blend of humorous reflections, rants, and musings on the absurdities of life, language, and society. Carlin’s keen eye for the ridiculous and his fearless approach to taboo subjects make this book a provocative exploration of the human condition. Through a series of essays and thoughts, Carlin dissects everyday life with his trademark blend of cynicism and humor, providing readers with laughter and insight. This work is a testament to Carlin’s status as a critical thinker and comedian, offering a reflection on the world that is as thoughtful as it is entertaining.

Napalm and Silly Putty
Napalm and Silly Putty

My Thoughts

Growing up with George Carlin, this book reminded me of a ton of his musings and general jokes. While he can be pretty preachy at times, dirty at others, and still profound in others, he is hilarious!

Recommendation

Watch his stand up first. It is better with the visuals.

On Killing

Background

Published in 1995, “On Killing: The Psychological Cost of Learning to Kill in War and Society,” by Lt. Col. Dave Grossman, delves into the psychological impact of killing on soldiers and law enforcement officers. Grossman combines historical data, interviews, and psychological research to explore the resistance humans have to taking life and the techniques developed by the military to overcome this inhibition. The book examines the consequences of killing, including post-traumatic stress disorder and other long-term psychological effects. Grossman’s work is a seminal exploration of the complex interplay between the duty to kill in certain professions and the innate human aversion to taking life, offering crucial insights into the human psyche and the societal implications of institutionalized violence.

On Killing
On Killing

My Thoughts

This book was not what I thought it was going to be. It shed new light on the personal struggles that men have had killing others for centuries. I was introduced to a side of the military I don’t often see and have more hope for humanity because of it.

Recommendation

This can be a rough book for those who are sensitive.

Brief: Make a Bigger Impact by Saying Less

Background

Published in 2014, “Brief: Make a Bigger Impact by Saying Less” by Joseph McCormack is a compelling guide that underscores the power of brevity in communication. McCormack argues that in our information-saturated age, being concise can significantly enhance the effectiveness of our messages. The book provides practical strategies for distilling complex ideas into clear, concise communications, whether in writing, presentations, or everyday conversations. Emphasizing the importance of being succinct without sacrificing clarity, McCormack offers readers tools to capture attention, convey information efficiently, and make a lasting impact. Through a blend of research, real-world examples, and actionable tips, “Brief” equips individuals with the skills to communicate more effectively by saying less, making it a vital resource for professionals across all fields aiming to make their messages more impactful.

Brief: Make a Bigger Impact by Saying Less
Brief: Make a Bigger Impact by Saying Less

My Thoughts

Much to the title’s description, the idea is to keep it short and powerful. I really liked this book and it stopped me from prattling on for a good week or so (I hope).

Recommendation

Great book with a great message.