Background
Published in March of 2021, Everybody Fights so Why Not Get Better at It is a book about marital relations and how to talk to each other.
My Thoughts
I actually really liked this book and it had a lot of really good ideas in it. Of course, I identify more with Penn but I think they did a good job of balancing out the crazy. Kim and Penn Holderness are known for their YouTube songs and the like so I didn’t have much faith going into it.
It’s hard not to draw parallels to the Hollis couple before they split. I identified with Dave and was bothered with how Rachael treated him. Kim doesn’t take herself quite so seriously but she still bothers me. (As I type that I can picture my daughter, “That seems like a you problem.”) Anyway, I wish them all the best and I did enjoy the book.
Recommendation
I liked it. If you want to communicate better with your spouse, I would recommend it.