Background
Published in 1960, “The Four Loves” is a non-fiction book written by C.S. Lewis on the nature of love. In this insightful work, Lewis explores love from a philosophical and Christian perspective. Expounding on four distinct categories of love:
- Storge: This refers to familial or natural affection, the love between family members, or the love that arises naturally, such as the love between parents and children.
- Philia: This represents friendship and the love between friends. It encompasses loyalty, camaraderie, and mutual respect.
- Eros: Eros refers to romantic or passionate love. It is associated with desire, attraction, and physical intimacy.
- Agape: Agape is unconditional love, often seen as divine or selfless love. It is characterized by compassion, generosity, and a genuine concern for the well-being of others.
Lewis delves into the complexities and nuances of each type of love. He examines their strengths, potential pitfalls, and how they relate to one another. Drawing from literature, theology, and personal experiences, Lewis offers profound reflections on the meaning and significance of love in our lives. “The Four Loves” is a timeless exploration of human relationships and emotions that continues to resonate with readers, offering wisdom and understanding on the nature of love.
My Thoughts
I can’t heap enough praise on this book. C.S. Lewis does not tell a story here, rather he is explaining, as plain as he can, the nature of love. I went through it a number of times and still think I’m just scratching the surface.
Recommendation
Read this book!