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The Algebra of Happiness

April 19, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2019, “The Algebra of Happiness” is a book by Scott Galloway that offers a blend of personal anecdotes, professional advice, and insights into achieving success, happiness, and life fulfillment. The book draws from Galloway’s experiences as an entrepreneur, professor, and public speaker, providing guidance on relationships, career choices, and personal growth.

My Thoughts

I enjoyed this book. In particular, the fact that his sons brought so much joy into his life. (I don’t know that kissing them on the mouth is needed, but still.) It’s amazing how much he gets wrong at the same time of getting so much right.

Recommendation

It was still worth the read.

The Grand Strategy That Won The Cold War

April 16, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2016, “The Grand Strategy that Won the Cold War: Architecture of Triumph” by Douglas E. Streusand, presents an analysis of the strategic framework that led to the United States’ victory in the Cold War. Streusand examines the multifaceted approach adopted by American policymakers, emphasizing the importance of containment, military strength, economic vitality, and ideological warfare. Drawing on extensive research and historical evidence, he argues that the United States successfully constructed a resilient and adaptable grand strategy that effectively countered Soviet expansionism and ultimately led to the collapse of the Soviet Union.

My Thoughts

This was a fascinating look behind the scenes of the Reagan administration and how they went about combating communism and more specifically the USSR. The author is unapologetically pro President Reagan and states repeatedly that he both had the vision and followed through. If true, that is impressive and puts so many actions taken in perspective. I am currently looking for more information and/or the counter argument.

Recommendation

A little stuffy and full of references, but I enjoyed it.

The Frugal Wizard’s Handbook for Surviving Medieval England

April 12, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in April of 2023, “The Frugal Wizard’s Handbook for Surviving Medieval England” by Brandon Sanderson is a futuristic fantasy novel. It unfolds in a world where a corporation offers dimensions akin to medieval England to thrill-seekers from the present day. Equipped with advanced technology, these visitors appear as wizards to the locals, but when the protagonist discovers unexpected company in his personal dimension, he finds more than he bargained for.

My Thoughts

I really needed a fun read and this fit the bill. Brandon Sanderson is a personal favorite and I hadn’t seen this book before. I enjoyed the concept and the literary device of memory loss. As a reader, we were walked through putting together who the main character is, why he is there, and was able to cheer him on as he attempted to do what is right. I can’t ask for much more than that.

Recommendation

Fun book!

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us

April 8, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2009, “Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us” explores the concept of motivation and challenges traditional notions of what drives human behavior. Daniel H. Pink argues that conventional carrot-and-stick approaches to motivation, such as rewards and punishments, are often ineffective in fostering long-term engagement and creativity. Pink introduces the concept of intrinsic motivation suggesting individuals are most motivated when they have the freedom to pursue tasks that align with their interests and values, opportunities to develop their skills, and a clear sense of meaning in their work.

My Thoughts

Reading this book 16 years after the publication does taint the excitement generated by the subject matter. I remember the rise of the open office in the tech world and the ideas of empowerment that were prevalent during that time. Some offices have continued along that path but have learned there are times employees needed time to themselves to do deep work. Of course, the COVID pandemic threw a monkey wrench into the idea of a fixed office provided by the company. Oddly enough, this plays directly into Pink’s point of autonomy. Are we more productive now? We are still sorting that out, but early reports like this one say we are much better off.

Recommendation

A good read but getting dated.

The Problem of Pain

April 5, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 1940, “The Problem of Pain” by C.S. Lewis is an exploration of the theological and philosophical issue of human suffering. Drawing from his understanding of Christian theology and classical philosophy, Lewis delves into the nature of pain and its relationship to the existence of a loving God. Through logic and stories, Lewis tackles complex questions surrounding theodicy, free will, and divine justice, offering readers profound insights into the nature of suffering and why we have to endure it.

My Thoughts

C.S. Lewis is a favorite of mine and I love to hear him reason through arguments. I very much wish I could talk to him about my understanding of the gospel and the nature of God. In this publication, Lewis expounds on why we are subject to pain and suffering. In short, our loving God gave it to us to make us better. We have the opportunity to give God the only real gift we can give, which is our freedom of choice and choose to become better than what we are.

Recommendation

This one is a must read. Possibly several times to get my head wrapped around it.

The Age of Deer

April 4, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2016, “The Age of Deer” by Erika Howsare is an exploration of humanity’s ecological interdependence with the deer population, blending memoir, natural history, and cultural analysis. Howsare’s book takes readers in her personal journey as she observes, interacts with, and reflects upon the behavior and symbolism of deer in different cultures and in her rural Virginia surroundings. She attempts to view human interaction with deer through several perspectives and through several lenses.

My Thoughts

At times the book is surprisingly insightful and touched on information and situations, of which I was not aware. However, it is all through the eyes of someone who is still squeamish at the sight of blood and has obvious distaste for hunters. Through the story arc of the book, she does find grudging respect for those who hunt (fortunately they were family members). Still, she seems to want it tied up in a bow of nobility and need. Something akin to, ‘The hunter must hunt to survive and must reverence the creature on which they feed.’

Regardless, she seemed to do her homework and the book is well written. Even if she had to hold her nose through the project, she did provide some interesting facts.

Recommendation

This was hard to get through for me but I’m glad I read it.

The Gunslinger

March 26, 2024 by Ryan

Background

“The Gunslinger” is the first book in Stephen King’s “The Dark Tower” series. It introduces readers to Roland Deschain, the last gunslinger, who is on a quest to catch the mysterious “man in black” and find the Dark Tower, a mythical structure that is the nexus of all universes. The story is set in a world that is a blend of Old West motifs and magical fantasy. Roland’s journey takes him through desolate towns and across barren landscapes, meeting various characters who either help or hinder his quest.

My Thoughts

I really didn’t enjoy this book. It seemed crass in the same way a junior high kid sees the world. Perhaps the rest of the series would redeem it, but I won’t be finishing it. There were some interesting ideas with the backstory of the gunslinger, but again, the power struggle between him and his mentor felt like the perspective and mindset of a teenager. This caused a lack of empathy for the character and general loss of interest on my part. It was no surprise when I learned this was one of King’s first books.

Recommend

Skip this one

The Four: The Hidden DNA of Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google

March 25, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2017, “The Four: The Hidden DNA of Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google,” written by Scott Galloway, is a critical analysis of how these four tech giants have come to dominate the global economy and influence nearly every aspect of our lives. Galloway explores the unique strategies and core business practices that have enabled Amazon, Apple, Facebook, and Google to achieve unparalleled growth and market power. The book provides insights into the companies’ impact on innovation, competition, and consumer behavior, as well as their role in reshaping industries and cultural norms. Galloway also examines the challenges and responsibilities these companies face given their monumental influence, offering a thought-provoking perspective on the future of technology and its intersection with society and the economy.

My Thoughts

It is very interesting to read this book 6 years in the future from when it was written. Some of what he said remained true and some didn’t quite turn out the way he anticipated. In fairness, it’s hard to see a global pandemic and the changes forcing everyone to stay home made on the market.

Recommendation

Still a good book even though it doesn’t quite hold up.

Leaders Eat Last

March 22, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2014, “Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don’t,” by Simon Sinek, explores the foundational elements of great leadership and successful teams. Sinek delves into the biology of leadership, explaining how leaders can create environments where people feel safe, cooperate, and dedicate themselves to collective success. Drawing on real-life stories and scientific research, he illustrates why leaders who prioritize the well-being of their teams foster trust and collaboration, leading to more resilient and innovative organizations. The book underscores the importance of empathy and self-sacrifice in leadership, arguing that when leaders put their team’s needs first, they unlock the potential for extraordinary achievements. Sinek’s work offers a compelling roadmap for anyone looking to inspire loyalty, build stronger teams, and lead with a sense of purpose.

My Thoughts

Unlike “The Four”, this book seems to have withstood the test of time a little bit better. The forward was from Marine General Flinn, who gained some notoriety back in those days. No wonder this book was suggested to me by a Marine officer…

Recommendation

Good book with some solid ideas about inspiring others.

Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy

March 21, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2000, “Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy,” by Stephen E. Lamb and Douglas E. Brinley, provides a thoughtful exploration of the physical and emotional aspects of marital intimacy through the lens of gospel teachings. The authors delve into how couples can enhance their marital relationship by aligning their intimate lives with their spiritual beliefs, emphasizing communication, mutual respect, and love. The book addresses common challenges and questions couples may have, offering guidance and insights based on scriptural doctrines and the teachings of modern-day church leaders. It aims to help couples build a stronger, more fulfilling marriage by integrating their faith with their personal relationship, particularly in the context of intimacy, which is often considered a taboo subject in religious discussions. Through practical advice and spiritual encouragement, the book seeks to empower couples to nurture a deep, lasting connection that harmonizes their physical and spiritual union.

My Thoughts

Sex is one of the most taboo things that seems to be in everyone’s face. Pornographic images and videos are all over the place and none of them help a married couple because it isn’t real. Suspending for a second that the whole point of porn is to debase people in order to make money, even the most realistic depictions of sexual acts does not help married couples grow closer together. They need to walk that road themselves and discover themselves and each other in the process.

Recommendation

Certainly not the definitive source but it was a good book.