Non-Fiction – Ryan’s Book Blog

Scam Goddess

December 12, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in September of 2024, “Scam Goddess: Lessons from a Life of Cons, Grifts, and Schemes” is a humorous essay collection by Laci Mosley, host of the award-winning “Scam Goddess” podcast. The book delves into various frauds, cons, and schemes, examining how the scammer mindset has influenced Mosley’s upbringing, career, relationships, and more. Through personal anecdotes and true-crime scam stories, Mosley offers insights into navigating a complex and often unjust world.

My Thoughts

I had never heard of Laci Mosley before reading this book. I had to Google “Florida Girls” and realized there really wasn’t any way I would stumble across her work thus far. (Till now!) I enjoy reading a random new book release in a failing attempt to diversify my interests and keep me current. I say failing because I seem to slide further into my “get off the lawn” phase in life. I love the quote from the Simpsons (Abe Simpson Season 7, Episode 24), “I used to be with it, but then they changed what ‘it’ was. Now what I’m with isn’t ‘it,’ and what’s ‘it’ seems weird and scary to me. It’ll happen to you!”

Anyway, I enjoyed the book. I certainly don’t agree with the main premise that everyone is a scammer and trying to get one over on everyone. In fact, it saddens me to think there are so many people out there with the same perspective. Mosley mentions in the book how she stole food from a hotel because she didn’t want to wait in line. No apology, no shame, just a passing mention that it was their fault for not having enough attendants. That is full on self centered entitlement. She not only doesn’t see that behavior as wrong, she honestly believes she was being the moral actor as she was engaged in what she deemed as a good cause at the time. Plus, and as a bonus, it is the fault of institution that allowed it to happen. To use the classic phrase, “This is why we can’t have nice things.”

Oh yeah, back on track. I enjoyed the book. Mosley is very open with her thoughts and feelings has she shares her story. Her words are alive with energy and enthusiasm and she almost made me forget that most of what she shared was morally reprehensible. I have almost nothing in common with an attention seeking, actress, female, black, millennial and even less with a self described “Scam Goddess”, but I appreciate the window into her story.

Recommendation

I’m on the fence here. I’d imagine if you know and love Laci Mosley, you would likely love this book. However, even though I enjoyed the read and specifically enjoyed the alternate perspective, reading it hurt my heart and may have dimmed my perspective on humanity. The reader will have make up their own mind on this one.

The Good Allies

December 11, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in September of 2024, “The Good Allies: How Canada and the United States Fought Together to Defeat Fascism during the Second World War” by historian Tim Cook examines the evolving relationship between Canada and the United States during World War II. Initially wary neighbors, the two nations transformed into steadfast allies, collaborating closely to combat the Axis powers. Cook delves into diplomatic communications among leaders such as Churchill, Roosevelt, and King, highlighting how their interactions shaped wartime strategies and the post-war order. The book explores joint military operations, economic partnerships, and the cultural shifts that solidified the North American alliance, offering insights into how Canada navigated its role alongside a burgeoning global superpower.

My Thoughts

This was an interesting read as, like others, I wasn’t very aware of Canada’s contribution to World War II. Cook owns that stating, “It is up to Canadians to tell their story” which was a stated part of why this book was written.

In high school, I struggled to remember and meaningfully acknowledge the contributions of people outside my immediate friend group. Reading this book felt a lot like revisiting that dynamic. Canada played a significant role, making notable contributions, but their story often goes untold or forgotten. It’s no wonder Canada’s leadership worried about this exact issue. Caught between being perceived as English colonials or “upper Americans,” Canada has long been treated like the annoying younger sibling no one wants to include. Yet, during the war, they gave their time, talent, and resources—and continued to persevere despite it all. My hat’s off to you Canada!

Recommendation

This was a detailed read and I had to plow through some of it. However, I enjoyed the fresh perspective.

How to Piss Off Men

December 9, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2023, “How to Piss Off Men: 109 Things to Say to Shatter the Male Ego” is a humorous guide by Kyle Prue, offering over 100 witty phrases and comebacks designed to challenge “toxic masculinity and leave even the most persistent mansplainers at a loss for words.” The book provides readers with tools to confront and dismantle everyday sexism in a clever and impactful manner.

My Thoughts

This book originally came from a viral TicToc post from Prue which eventually led to a published book. The target audience is men and the stated reason for writing the material is to help men sit with the content and think about why that particular statement would bother them. It was a very fast read and several of the items won’t make sense as time goes on. (E.g. “Let’s go Brandon.”) However, some were genuinely amusing.

Recommendation

It was a fun list that went by fast. I would recommend listening to the audiobook which featured a conversation with the author and his mother about the work.

Punishing Putin

December 7, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in February of 2024, “Punishing Putin: Inside the Global Economic War to Bring Down Russia” is a comprehensive examination of the unprecedented economic sanctions imposed by the United States and its European allies in response to Vladimir Putin’s invasion of Ukraine. Authored by journalist Stephanie Baker, the book delves into the intricate strategies and international collaborations aimed at undermining Russia’s economy and war capabilities. Baker provides an in-depth analysis of the sanctions’ development, implementation, and their far-reaching impacts on global alliances and economic structures. Through meticulous research and access to key Western and Russian sources, she offers readers a nuanced understanding of this significant aspect of modern economic statecraft.

My Thoughts

There was certainly plenty of detail in this book and no small amount of frustration as the seesaw of opinion and politics has been operating over the last few decades. It is fairly incredible how Russia continues to operate under sanctions, yet becomes more understandable as constant failures to commit or to create a united front have plagued the effort since early on. Where would we be at this point had there been a more effective early intervention? At the time of this writing, the US has sent over 175 Billion dollars worth of resources in aid and we are sending more. (Source)

Baker opens the window to the world of international law and finance with this book. I can honestly say that I learned a lot and am processing even more after reading through this.

Recommendation

A great read if you are interested.

Marine Sniper

December 2, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 1986, “Marine Sniper: 93 Confirmed Kills” is a biography by Charles Henderson that chronicles the life and military career of Sergeant Carlos Hathcock, a legendary Marine sniper during the Vietnam War. Born in 1942, Hathcock developed exceptional marksmanship skills from a young age, which he honed throughout his service in the United States Marine Corps. During his deployment in Vietnam, he achieved 93 confirmed kills and numerous unconfirmed ones, earning him a formidable reputation among both allies and adversaries. Hathcock’s missions were marked by extraordinary feats, including a 2,500-yard shot that set a record for the longest sniper kill at the time, and a perilous solo mission to eliminate a high-ranking North Vietnamese general. Beyond his combat achievements, Hathcock contributed significantly to sniper training and tactics, leaving a lasting impact on military marksmanship. His career was cut short after sustaining severe injuries while rescuing fellow Marines from a burning vehicle, an act that exemplified his bravery and dedication.

My Thoughts

This book was recommended by a coworker and is part of the lore surrounding the Marine Corps. I hadn’t heard of this one before, but I was glad to get the chance to read it. Carlos Hathcock is the personification of the classic hero. He is humble, modest, honorable, got the job done and doesn’t need to tell you all about it.

Recommendation

A good read if you enjoy military books. There are some moments that aren’t for kids.

The Evolution of God

November 17, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2009, “The Evolution of God” by Robert Wright explores the development of the concept of God in the three main Abrahamic religions: Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. Wright examines how the idea of God has transformed over time, influenced by cultural, political, and social factors. He utilizes insights from archaeology, history, theology, and evolutionary psychology to trace these changes. Wright also discusses the role of evolutionary biology in the development of religion and speculates on the future of the concept of God.

My Thoughts

I was uncertain about this book a few times but it grew on me as he was finishing it out. This book is pieced together with secular evidence (e.g. existing documents, physically evidence, etc.) and is examined through the same lens. Ultimately, religion without faith can feel dry, disjointed, or incomplete. Or to put it another way, “They who dance are thought mad by those who hear not the music.”

There is an article of faith in my religion that reads in part, “We believe the Bible to be the word of God as far as it is translated correctly.” The need for that qualifier is apparent throughout this book as numerous inferences are made through questionable translations and quotations.

Regardless, Wright did the best he could with the tools available and even tries to excuse believers as well. Unfortunately, he likely would be pilloried for any attempt simply due to the subject matter. Hopefully, our society will continue to grow along with our understanding of God and each other.

Recommendation

This one is worth the time. However, make sure to read through to the end.

Breaking Free from Sloth

November 14, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2012, “Breaking Free from Sloth” is a concise work by Donna Farhi, first published on February 7, 2012. In this selection from her book Bringing Yoga to Life, Farhi explores the concept of sloth, not merely as laziness, but as a habitual disinclination toward purposeful effort. Drawing from her extensive experience as a yoga teacher, she discusses how sloth can impede personal growth and spiritual practice. Farhi offers insights into overcoming self-sabotage and emphasizes the importance of aligning one’s actions with cherished values to live a more fulfilling life.

My Thoughts

This book read much like most yoga books I’ve gone through. It starts with defining terms and talks about finding the balance between extremes. However, it’s a good reminder not to get in a rut or do too much.

Recommendation

Very quick read and good advice.

Killing Jesus

November 9, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2013, “Killing Jesus” written by Bill O’Reilly and Martin Dugard, provides a historical account of the life and crucifixion of Jesus of Nazareth. The book explores the political, social, and religious dynamics of the Roman Empire and Jewish leadership, setting the stage for the events that culminated in Jesus’s execution. Drawing from historical sources, the authors detail the intersections of power, betrayal, and faith, presenting the crucifixion not only as a pivotal religious moment but also as a political event shaped by the tensions of its time.

My Thoughts

O’Reilly and Gugard tried to only use information they were able to cite from specific contemporary sources. However, there simply isn’t many contemporary sources and so they used the four gospels as well. Of course, there are some minor differences in the narrative such as the final words on the cross, Matthew (27:46) & Mark (15:34), “My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?” Luke (23:46), “Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit.” John (19:30),”It is finished.” The latter being used by the authors. (Unfortunately, they didn’t include the phrase from Luke, (23:34) “Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.” I love that line. Even the movie “Ben Hurr” makes a big of it!)

Regardless, I think they did a good job of putting forth a decent secular narrative of the life of Jesus of Nazareth. However, for roughly a third of the world, Jesus is more than a man. He is the Christ, the Son of God, our Redeemer, and Savior. I tip my hat to the authors for the sheer gall of writing the book as it is riddled with opportunities to offend someone. (Perhaps that’s merely a 2024 way of thinking about it.)

Recommendation

Not bad. It helped by keeping in mind, the authors did their best with what they had.

The Book of Job: When Bad Things Happened to a Good Person

November 8, 2024 by Ryan

Published in 2012, “The Book of Job: When Bad Things Happened to a Good Person” Rabbi Harold S. Kushner delves into the biblical story of Job, a righteous man who endures profound suffering. Kushner examines the age-old question of why bad things happen to good people, exploring themes of faith, justice, and the human condition. Drawing from the text and his own experiences, he offers perspectives on coping with adversity and finding meaning amid life’s challenges.

My Thoughts

A very enjoyable book that peaked my curiousity in several areas. For example, I didn’t know there was a fable of Job and a poem of Job sandwiched in the current version. And that the fable was known in other ancient societies. Also, that it was originally packaged with Psalms and the Songs of Solomon.

The book covers a lot of ground for it relatively small size. Once again, I am reminded that I need to read through the Torah so I can better understand the Jewish perspective.

Recommendation

I highly recommend it!

Healing Anxiety and Depression

November 4, 2024 by Ryan

Background

Published in 2004, “Healing Anxiety and Depression” authored by Dr. Daniel G. Amen and Dr. Lisa C. Routh, explores the neurological underpinnings of anxiety and depression through brain SPECT imaging. The authors identify seven distinct types of these disorders, each associated with specific brain patterns. They provide tailored treatment plans for each type, incorporating medication, diet, supplements, exercise, and therapeutic support. The book also includes a self-diagnostic test to help readers determine their specific type, aiming to offer a comprehensive approach to managing and overcoming anxiety and depression.

My Thoughts

While it is now a dated resource, I enjoyed several of the ideas put forth in the text. First is the idea that it is helpful to see what the brain is doing before a round of medication is attempted. The authors liken this to trying to figure out why a car won’t start without looking under the hood. I like this idea for a number of reasons.

First, it makes sense. It is my personal belief that most psychotropic medications are prescribed without a clear understanding of the underlying problem. Therefore, they are given with the expectation that they will need to be adjusted based on changes in the patient’s symptoms. However, dialing in a medication can take several years, if the patient hangs on that long.

Second, if there is no understanding of the underlying problem, it is unclear which medication to try. While the doctor and patient are trying to find the right dosage, the medication itself might be going in the wrong direction. (For example, if you want to decrease activity in the basal ganglia, then you shouldn’t prescribe a stimulant.)

Third, there may be a structural issue in the brain causing the problem, such as the cyst in the temporal lobe given as an example in the book. This would not be impacted by medication, no matter the dosage.

I am interested in learning more about the costs involved with SPECT scans and where they fall in the spectrum of care today. I appreciated that the book discussed diet and exercise as important to a person’s mental health.

Recommendation

This book is fairly specialized and assumes a certain level understanding of chemistry and psychology. The first part of the book was mostly medications and their side effects. It was fairly dense reading and was harder to push through. If you have interest and a high school education, you should be able to make it through.