Yellowface

Background

Published in May of 2023, “Yellowface,” by R.F. Kuang, is a novel delving into issues of cultural appropriation, identity, and the cutthroat world of publishing. The story follows June Hayward, a struggling writer who seizes an unexpected opportunity after the sudden death of her more successful friend, Athena Liu. June decides to publish Athena’s unpublished manuscript under her own name, assuming a new identity and navigating the complexities of literary fame. As she gains success, June faces mounting pressure and guilt, exposing the darker side of the literary industry and the consequences of erasing and exploiting another’s voice.

Yellowface
Yellowface

My Thoughts

I honestly don’t remember where I heard about his book or who recommended it to me. I had it on hold for months and was surprised when it finally popped up in my inbox. That said, I really didn’t like at first. Juniper was self entitled narcissistic piece of garbage who couldn’t get over the fact that her friend was successful. I didn’t know what the book was about and it took me a minute to figure out that I wasn’t supposed to like the protagonist. And she didn’t get any better…

I was pulled in. I loved the commentary on social media and the internet as a whole. How shallow and fickle people can be and how ridiculous cancel culture can be. The book made me think about how unsafe the internet really is and how petty people can be. This book is sad commentary on a society so focused on themselves that they’ve lost an reason to exist. On people who have to find connection with others who are just as vapid and small as themselves. Tearing down each other to make themselves feel better. For most of us, that was middle school or junior high. Unfortunately, some never really evolved past it.

Fortunately, the book eventually ended. It was too much pettiness to keep watching and was getting more and more painful. It was well written and was a compelling story, yet if people are really like that, I feel terrible for them. I’m glad that I know many people who have grown up and are simply good humans.

Recommendation

It became better as it went on. However, I won’t be reading it again.

The Boys in the Boat

Background

Published in June of 2013, “The Boys in the Boat,” by Daniel James Brown, recounts the inspiring true story of the University of Washington’s 1936 eight-oar rowing team and their quest for gold at the Berlin Olympics. Set against the backdrop of the Great Depression, the narrative follows the lives of the young men from diverse backgrounds who overcame immense personal and collective hardships. Through their determination, teamwork, and the guidance of their visionary coach, they triumphed against the odds, culminating in an electrifying race that captured the world’s attention and remains a testament to the power of perseverance and unity.

The Boys in the Boat
The Boys in the Boat

My Thoughts

I wanted to read the book before seeing the movie. Now that I have, I don’t know I need to see it. This story was not quite what I was expecting. I enjoy a good sock-Hilter-in-the-jaw type books as much as anyone. However, I just wasn’t expecting it. Nor was the focus on Joe throughout most of the book. I regret there wasn’t much character development for the rest of the boys.

Recommendation

A good book and an inspiring story.

Body Confidence

Background

Published in 2011, “Body Confidence” by Mark Macdonald offers a comprehensive guide to achieving optimal health and fitness through a balanced approach to nutrition, exercise, and lifestyle habits. The book introduces the “Venice Nutrition Program,” which emphasizes stabilizing blood sugar levels to maintain energy, burn fat, and build lean muscle. Macdonald provides practical advice, meal plans, and workout routines, aiming to empower readers to take control of their bodies and develop lasting confidence. The focus is on creating sustainable habits rather than quick fixes, promoting a holistic and personalized path to wellness.

Body Confidence
Body Confidence

My Thoughts

I’ve been looking for a good motivational book for a while and this one was not what I wanted. However, his idea does have some appeal in that the usual-body-technobabble made some sense. I liked his whole life approach and emphasis on not shaming. I liked that he supports an incremental build and understands it takes time to change. I didn’t like the idea of eating several times a day, but it’s the foundation of everything he is trying to preach. It is what it is.

For my personal journey, I’ve found as I’ve read these books that my opinions are fairly well solidified when it comes to health and nutrition. (I’m just looking for the motivation to do it.) By that measurement this book would only receive partial credit.

Recommendation

If you are looking to join another diet, this one may be right for you. If not, skip it.

Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be

Background

Published in 2015, “Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be” by Frank Bruni challenges the notion that attending an elite college is the only path to success and happiness. Bruni argues that students should prioritize finding a college where they can thrive academically and personally rather than focusing solely on prestigious institutions. Drawing on research and interviews with students and professionals, Bruni advocates for a more holistic approach to college admissions and highlights the achievements of individuals who have found fulfillment outside of the Ivy League.

Where You Go In Not Who You'll Be
Where You Go In Not Who You’ll Be

My Thoughts

This book was heavily aligned with my personal beliefs about higher education and what “where you go” says about your potential and character. I have a saying that “nothing decreases your respect for a degree more than earning it.” I didn’t walk for my undergrad but I do remember looking down the line of people in my graduate program and thinking that each one of them had the same degree I had. Since I worked with them, I knew who didn’t do the work, who didn’t know the content, and who wouldn’t have graduated if they didn’t ride the coattails of their group, which only received top marks because someone else did all the work. Of course, this is a microcosm of the greater system, but it illustrates the college experience can vary even at the same institution. Imagine the variance of experiences across all the world’s centers of learning.

I also remember talking to a young lady who just finished her BS from Harvard. I was suitably impressive and I asked her what it was in. “German” was her excited reply. Having studied German in high school and a bit in college, I started speaking to her in German. Long story short, I didn’t speak much German. She didn’t understand much German (admitted it was me speaking it), but her level seemed to be about a first year student. Yet, she had a BS from Harvard. I was pretty disappointed in Harvard and that has colored my thoughts on the subject ever since.

Where you go does matter, but not for the reasons you might think. Go to Harvard if you want to study business or law and cost isn’t a factor. Those connections may mean something to you down the line. However, find the school that speaks to your wants and needs. I was very happy with my education from a state school and I feel it has served me well.

Recommendation

Given the soaring costs of tuition and the growing ubiquity of college educated people, this message needs to be heard.

Romney: A Reckoning

Background

Published in 2023, “Romney: A Reckoning” is a biography of former Presidential nominee Mitt Romney written by McKay Coppins. Romney has been both the darling of the GOP as the lead Republican and fell out of favor as he questioned the Republican party for standing behind President Trump through thick and thin. The book takes the reader through the beginnings of the Romney fortune, his upbringing, and through his years in politics through 2023.

Romney: A Reckoning
Romney: A Reckoning

My Thoughts

The book cast Mitt Romney as someone who put principle over preference and as a man of honor and integrity. I was no fan of Mitt Romney through the presidential election as I believed he was not the person to represent my religion. Similar to Harry Reid, I had a hard time seeing eye to eye with these men and felt they shouldn’t be the standard bearers. Also, I didn’t see President Obama as someone that could be beaten. He was too well loved and the country simply couldn’t vote against him. (I do agree with Romney’s opinion that President Obama was out of his depth, but was just to arrogant to understand it.)

The ongoing feud with President Trump was interesting to see from Romney’s perspective. I’m inclined to believe the narrative as truth is a relative term for President Trump. He was a terrible President and was an embarrassment to our country. In fact that he is the front runner again is simply terrifying. I’m just as impressed with President Biden and I honestly fear for our nation in the coming years.

Recommendation

Not a bad read.

Skinny Bastard

Background

Published in 2009, “Skinny Bastard,” challenges conventional dietary norms and advocates for a plant-based lifestyle to achieve optimal health and vitality. Through a combination of hard-hitting facts, humor, and practical advice, the book sheds light on the detrimental effects of meat and dairy consumption on health, the environment, and animal welfare. With a straightforward and no-nonsense approach, it empowers readers to take control of their health by adopting a plant-based diet, offering a wealth of information and resources to support this lifestyle change.

Skinny Bastard
Skinny Bastard

My Thoughts

I enjoyed how the book is written and after several attempts at reading some dietary books, which ended up written for women, I was hoping to find something a little more geared to men. This seemed to be a good alternative.

However, the book turned out to be just another attempt to push people into a fad diet with some tired slander and cherry picked research. (Much of which has been discredited in the last decade and even retracted by one of the doctors they cite.)

Recommendation

It started well but quick spiraled. Skip this one.

Fight Fat After Forty

Background

Published in 2000, “Fight Fat After Forty” is a health and wellness book by Pamela Peeke, M.D. It addresses the unique challenges women face in managing their weight after the age of forty. The book delves into the physiological changes such as hormonal fluctuations that can impact metabolism, mood, and energy levels. Dr. Peeke combines scientific research with practical advice, proposing a comprehensive plan that includes diet modifications, stress management techniques, and an exercise regimen tailored to enhance metabolic efficiency. The core message is that understanding and adapting to these bodily changes can empower women to maintain fitness and health.

Fight Fat After Forty
Fight Fat After Forty

My Thoughts

I am feeling a little larger than I’d prefer and I wanted to listen to something motivational while I had some time on my hands. I was shooting my son’s track meet when I picked out this book and didn’t quite look at it close enough. This book is all about the female side of health, but I figured, why not? Maybe I’ll learn something…

I found the book to be pretty well balanced as it didn’t advocate extreme versions of dieting. Dr. Peeke attempts to get to the reasons why women feel hungry and what to expect as they reach their forties. She gives practical advise and doesn’t go for the all-or-nothing or shaming approaches to weight loss.

On another note, I brought down two titles to listen to. The other looked like a clinical overview. It turned out it was all about women as well. It’s rare I send anything back, but I made an exception in this case. Sorry, Sara Gottfried M.D. I didn’t read “The Brain Body Diet” but the cover successfully reeled in a download.

Recommendation

I good balanced book on healthy eating. I highly recommend two X chromosomes.

The Algebra of Happiness

Background

Published in 2019, “The Algebra of Happiness” is a book by Scott Galloway that offers a blend of personal anecdotes, professional advice, and insights into achieving success, happiness, and life fulfillment. The book draws from Galloway’s experiences as an entrepreneur, professor, and public speaker, providing guidance on relationships, career choices, and personal growth.

The Algebra of Happiness
The Algebra of Happiness

My Thoughts

I enjoyed this book. In particular, the fact that his sons brought so much joy into his life. (I don’t know that kissing them on the mouth is needed, but still.) It’s amazing how much he gets wrong at the same time of getting so much right.

Recommendation

It was still worth the read.

The Grand Strategy That Won The Cold War

Background

Published in 2016, “The Grand Strategy that Won the Cold War: Architecture of Triumph” by Douglas E. Streusand, presents an analysis of the strategic framework that led to the United States’ victory in the Cold War. Streusand examines the multifaceted approach adopted by American policymakers, emphasizing the importance of containment, military strength, economic vitality, and ideological warfare. Drawing on extensive research and historical evidence, he argues that the United States successfully constructed a resilient and adaptable grand strategy that effectively countered Soviet expansionism and ultimately led to the collapse of the Soviet Union.

The Grand Strategy That Won The Cold War
The Grand Strategy That Won The Cold War

My Thoughts

This was a fascinating look behind the scenes of the Reagan administration and how they went about combating communism and more specifically the USSR. The author is unapologetically pro President Reagan and states repeatedly that he both had the vision and followed through. If true, that is impressive and puts so many actions taken in perspective. I am currently looking for more information and/or the counter argument.

Recommendation

A little stuffy and full of references, but I enjoyed it.

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us

Background

Published in 2009, “Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us” explores the concept of motivation and challenges traditional notions of what drives human behavior. Daniel H. Pink argues that conventional carrot-and-stick approaches to motivation, such as rewards and punishments, are often ineffective in fostering long-term engagement and creativity. Pink introduces the concept of intrinsic motivation suggesting individuals are most motivated when they have the freedom to pursue tasks that align with their interests and values, opportunities to develop their skills, and a clear sense of meaning in their work.

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us

My Thoughts

Reading this book 16 years after the publication does taint the excitement generated by the subject matter. I remember the rise of the open office in the tech world and the ideas of empowerment that were prevalent during that time. Some offices have continued along that path but have learned there are times employees needed time to themselves to do deep work. Of course, the COVID pandemic threw a monkey wrench into the idea of a fixed office provided by the company. Oddly enough, this plays directly into Pink’s point of autonomy. Are we more productive now? We are still sorting that out, but early reports like this one say we are much better off.

Recommendation

A good read but getting dated.