Non-Fiction

The Tech-Wise Family

Background

Published in 2017, “The Tech-Wise Family: Everyday Steps for Putting Technology in Its Proper Place,” by Andy Crouch, explores how families can navigate the influence of technology in modern life. Crouch provides advice and insights on creating an intentional approach to tech use, encouraging families to foster deeper relationships, creativity, and spiritual growth. By prioritizing human connections and setting thoughtful boundaries around digital devices, the book aims to help families reclaim their time and attention from the distractions of the digital age.

The Tech-Wise Family
The Tech-Wise Family

My Thoughts

Distractions by technology have certainly been on the rise. However, it also gives us access to information and communication on a scale never seen in recorded history. I emphatically agreed with Crouch’s assertion that this technology needs to be regulated. While I do agree with the broad strokes of the message, I disagree on exactly how to go about implementing his vision. I will also give him credit for his disclaimers that he and his family are not perfect in their execution of his espoused ideals.

One section of the book resonated with me in particular. The idea that we have unprecedented access to all the best music in the world and yet make the least music of any time in history. While this could be seen as just another sector of specialization, I’d not thought about so many people never making music themselves. I sincerely hope almost everyone at least has the experience of singing in the shower as making music strikes me a fundamentally human activity. Maybe other specialities are as rewarding from neurosurgery to parkour. (PARKOUR!!!)

I am an optimist when it comes to technology. I sincerely believe most people will figure out their own balance and are not in need of the rules Crouch tries to follow. However, I salute his attempt to address the situation. I strongly believe parents need to support their children and, in most cases, that will require them to place reasonable boundaries on their activities. In theory, we (as parents) have the benefit of experience to give perspective to these boundaries. Yet, these disruptions are so new, many of us are still reeling with the changes. It may feel like it is the blind leading the blind here, yet I believe it is the same struggle as before. We, as humans, need to be intentional about our lives. We crave attachments and are easily bored with the shallow and vapid things of this life. It may take time, but I believe we each have to learn our own way and those of us smart enough to learn from others will have a distinct advantage.

Recommendation

A little preachy, but a good book.

Shoe Dog

Background

Published in 2016, “Shoe Dog,” is a memoir by Phil Knight, the co-founder of Nike, Inc. The book offers a candid account of Knight’s journey from selling shoes out of the trunk of his car to building one of the world’s most iconic and successful athletic brands. Knight details the challenges, risks, and triumphs he faced along the way, emphasizing the importance of perseverance, innovation, and teamwork. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, “Shoe Dog” provides a unique glimpse into the entrepreneurial spirit that fueled the creation and growth of Nike.

Shoe Dog
Shoe Dog

My Thoughts

The writing was a narrative style that was an easy read. Of course, the copy I found was the young reader’s edition so it was an accessible read. (Apparently the full version is a quarter longer than this version.)

It has been distressing to read similar tales of how major companies rose from obscurity. Phil Knight’s company was on the brink of collapse on several occasions and were it not for a bit of luck that was seemingly out of his control, there would be no Nike brand today. That steals the validity from the advice he gives such as on the cover, “You must forget your limits” or “Dare to take chance, lest you leave your talent buried in the ground.” I wonder how many people did exactly that and are now penniless.

I have started several companies and never grew past 22 employees. However, when that company finally failed, it fell hard and it ruined me financially. Nothing remained of what I saved from before, no 401k, and no college degree to fall back on. I took the risks and shoulder all the blame. Over the last 20 years, I’ve built myself back up, but I’m very skeptical of the advice given in this book and more particularly of the dishonesty in how success was achieved. It is a slippery slope to start endorsing ends justifying means and I had hoped for better.

Recommendation

I’m glad I read it, but it left my world view worse off.

My Tech-Wise Life

Background

Published in November of 2020, “My Tech-Wise Life: Growing Up and Making Choices in a World of Devices,” is co-authored by Amy Crouch and her father, Andy Crouch. The book explores Amy’s experiences growing up in a household that prioritized intentional and controlled use of technology. Amy, a Cornell University student, reflects on how this tech-wise upbringing helped her avoid common digital pitfalls and cultivate meaningful real-world interactions. Supported by research from the Barna Group, the book examines the pervasive influence of technology on young people’s lives and offers practical advice for balancing digital engagement with offline experiences. Andy Crouch provides additional insights, creating a dialogue attempting to bridge generational perspectives on managing technology effectively.

My Tech-Wise Life
My Tech-Wise Life

My Thoughts

My wife was reading, “The Tech-Wise Family”, which was written by Andy Crouch and really enjoyed it. I tried to reserve it and put it on hold. However, this one was available so I grabbed it and got started.

I enjoyed and agree with most of the things presented in the subject, yet I found the back and forth with the father distracting and unnecessary. Amy seemed to be genuine and was engaged with the topic. I believe she is likely to be able to connect with the younger audience. Her dad on the other hand came off as a little preachy. I understand that I am not the target demographic for this book, but even I didn’t like the guy. I will still read his book when it comes available though.

Recommendation

It was ok. I likely would have felt a bit better about it if I had read Andy’s book first.

The Boys in the Boat

Background

Published in June of 2013, “The Boys in the Boat,” by Daniel James Brown, recounts the inspiring true story of the University of Washington’s 1936 eight-oar rowing team and their quest for gold at the Berlin Olympics. Set against the backdrop of the Great Depression, the narrative follows the lives of the young men from diverse backgrounds who overcame immense personal and collective hardships. Through their determination, teamwork, and the guidance of their visionary coach, they triumphed against the odds, culminating in an electrifying race that captured the world’s attention and remains a testament to the power of perseverance and unity.

The Boys in the Boat
The Boys in the Boat

My Thoughts

I wanted to read the book before seeing the movie. Now that I have, I don’t know I need to see it. This story was not quite what I was expecting. I enjoy a good sock-Hilter-in-the-jaw type books as much as anyone. However, I just wasn’t expecting it. Nor was the focus on Joe throughout most of the book. I regret there wasn’t much character development for the rest of the boys.

Recommendation

A good book and an inspiring story.

Body Confidence

Background

Published in 2011, “Body Confidence” by Mark Macdonald offers a comprehensive guide to achieving optimal health and fitness through a balanced approach to nutrition, exercise, and lifestyle habits. The book introduces the “Venice Nutrition Program,” which emphasizes stabilizing blood sugar levels to maintain energy, burn fat, and build lean muscle. Macdonald provides practical advice, meal plans, and workout routines, aiming to empower readers to take control of their bodies and develop lasting confidence. The focus is on creating sustainable habits rather than quick fixes, promoting a holistic and personalized path to wellness.

Body Confidence
Body Confidence

My Thoughts

I’ve been looking for a good motivational book for a while and this one was not what I wanted. However, his idea does have some appeal in that the usual-body-technobabble made some sense. I liked his whole life approach and emphasis on not shaming. I liked that he supports an incremental build and understands it takes time to change. I didn’t like the idea of eating several times a day, but it’s the foundation of everything he is trying to preach. It is what it is.

For my personal journey, I’ve found as I’ve read these books that my opinions are fairly well solidified when it comes to health and nutrition. (I’m just looking for the motivation to do it.) By that measurement this book would only receive partial credit.

Recommendation

If you are looking to join another diet, this one may be right for you. If not, skip it.

Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be

Background

Published in 2015, “Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be” by Frank Bruni challenges the notion that attending an elite college is the only path to success and happiness. Bruni argues that students should prioritize finding a college where they can thrive academically and personally rather than focusing solely on prestigious institutions. Drawing on research and interviews with students and professionals, Bruni advocates for a more holistic approach to college admissions and highlights the achievements of individuals who have found fulfillment outside of the Ivy League.

Where You Go In Not Who You'll Be
Where You Go In Not Who You’ll Be

My Thoughts

This book was heavily aligned with my personal beliefs about higher education and what “where you go” says about your potential and character. I have a saying that “nothing decreases your respect for a degree more than earning it.” I didn’t walk for my undergrad but I do remember looking down the line of people in my graduate program and thinking that each one of them had the same degree I had. Since I worked with them, I knew who didn’t do the work, who didn’t know the content, and who wouldn’t have graduated if they didn’t ride the coattails of their group, which only received top marks because someone else did all the work. Of course, this is a microcosm of the greater system, but it illustrates the college experience can vary even at the same institution. Imagine the variance of experiences across all the world’s centers of learning.

I also remember talking to a young lady who just finished her BS from Harvard. I was suitably impressive and I asked her what it was in. “German” was her excited reply. Having studied German in high school and a bit in college, I started speaking to her in German. Long story short, I didn’t speak much German. She didn’t understand much German (admitted it was me speaking it), but her level seemed to be about a first year student. Yet, she had a BS from Harvard. I was pretty disappointed in Harvard and that has colored my thoughts on the subject ever since.

Where you go does matter, but not for the reasons you might think. Go to Harvard if you want to study business or law and cost isn’t a factor. Those connections may mean something to you down the line. However, find the school that speaks to your wants and needs. I was very happy with my education from a state school and I feel it has served me well.

Recommendation

Given the soaring costs of tuition and the growing ubiquity of college educated people, this message needs to be heard.

Romney: A Reckoning

Background

Published in 2023, “Romney: A Reckoning” is a biography of former Presidential nominee Mitt Romney written by McKay Coppins. Romney has been both the darling of the GOP as the lead Republican and fell out of favor as he questioned the Republican party for standing behind President Trump through thick and thin. The book takes the reader through the beginnings of the Romney fortune, his upbringing, and through his years in politics through 2023.

Romney: A Reckoning
Romney: A Reckoning

My Thoughts

The book cast Mitt Romney as someone who put principle over preference and as a man of honor and integrity. I was no fan of Mitt Romney through the presidential election as I believed he was not the person to represent my religion. Similar to Harry Reid, I had a hard time seeing eye to eye with these men and felt they shouldn’t be the standard bearers. Also, I didn’t see President Obama as someone that could be beaten. He was too well loved and the country simply couldn’t vote against him. (I do agree with Romney’s opinion that President Obama was out of his depth, but was just to arrogant to understand it.)

The ongoing feud with President Trump was interesting to see from Romney’s perspective. I’m inclined to believe the narrative as truth is a relative term for President Trump. He was a terrible President and was an embarrassment to our country. In fact that he is the front runner again is simply terrifying. I’m just as impressed with President Biden and I honestly fear for our nation in the coming years.

Recommendation

Not a bad read.

Skinny Bastard

Background

Published in 2009, “Skinny Bastard,” challenges conventional dietary norms and advocates for a plant-based lifestyle to achieve optimal health and vitality. Through a combination of hard-hitting facts, humor, and practical advice, the book sheds light on the detrimental effects of meat and dairy consumption on health, the environment, and animal welfare. With a straightforward and no-nonsense approach, it empowers readers to take control of their health by adopting a plant-based diet, offering a wealth of information and resources to support this lifestyle change.

Skinny Bastard
Skinny Bastard

My Thoughts

I enjoyed how the book is written and after several attempts at reading some dietary books, which ended up written for women, I was hoping to find something a little more geared to men. This seemed to be a good alternative.

However, the book turned out to be just another attempt to push people into a fad diet with some tired slander and cherry picked research. (Much of which has been discredited in the last decade and even retracted by one of the doctors they cite.)

Recommendation

It started well but quick spiraled. Skip this one.

Fight Fat After Forty

Background

Published in 2000, “Fight Fat After Forty” is a health and wellness book by Pamela Peeke, M.D. It addresses the unique challenges women face in managing their weight after the age of forty. The book delves into the physiological changes such as hormonal fluctuations that can impact metabolism, mood, and energy levels. Dr. Peeke combines scientific research with practical advice, proposing a comprehensive plan that includes diet modifications, stress management techniques, and an exercise regimen tailored to enhance metabolic efficiency. The core message is that understanding and adapting to these bodily changes can empower women to maintain fitness and health.

Fight Fat After Forty
Fight Fat After Forty

My Thoughts

I am feeling a little larger than I’d prefer and I wanted to listen to something motivational while I had some time on my hands. I was shooting my son’s track meet when I picked out this book and didn’t quite look at it close enough. This book is all about the female side of health, but I figured, why not? Maybe I’ll learn something…

I found the book to be pretty well balanced as it didn’t advocate extreme versions of dieting. Dr. Peeke attempts to get to the reasons why women feel hungry and what to expect as they reach their forties. She gives practical advise and doesn’t go for the all-or-nothing or shaming approaches to weight loss.

On another note, I brought down two titles to listen to. The other looked like a clinical overview. It turned out it was all about women as well. It’s rare I send anything back, but I made an exception in this case. Sorry, Sara Gottfried M.D. I didn’t read “The Brain Body Diet” but the cover successfully reeled in a download.

Recommendation

I good balanced book on healthy eating. I highly recommend two X chromosomes.

The Algebra of Happiness

Background

Published in 2019, “The Algebra of Happiness” is a book by Scott Galloway that offers a blend of personal anecdotes, professional advice, and insights into achieving success, happiness, and life fulfillment. The book draws from Galloway’s experiences as an entrepreneur, professor, and public speaker, providing guidance on relationships, career choices, and personal growth.

The Algebra of Happiness
The Algebra of Happiness

My Thoughts

I enjoyed this book. In particular, the fact that his sons brought so much joy into his life. (I don’t know that kissing them on the mouth is needed, but still.) It’s amazing how much he gets wrong at the same time of getting so much right.

Recommendation

It was still worth the read.