Education

Women, Peace, and Security in Professional Military Education

Background

Published in 2022, “Women, Peace, and Security in Professional Military Education,” edited by Dr. Lauren Mackenzie and published by the Marine Corps University Press, explores the critical integration of the Women, Peace, and Security (WPS) agenda into military education systems. This book is a compilation of essays and articles published on the relevant topics and arranged to provide a narrative. It examines how the principles of WPS, as outlined in UN Security Council Resolution 1325, are being woven into the curricula of military institutions to ensure that future leaders understand the importance of gender perspectives in conflict resolution and peacebuilding. Through analysis and case studies, the book highlights the impact of WPS on operational effectiveness, strategic planning, and the protection of vulnerable populations in conflict zones.

Women, Peace, and Security in Professional Military Education
Women, Peace, and Security in Professional Military Education

My Thoughts

The book doesn’t really read like a cohesive whole. This was to be expected as anytime you have a variety of authors, you run into this problem. However, the editors struggled to give it flow in areas that were in need of more form and structure.

Most of the segments came from articles or peer reviewed literature. Unfortunately, there are a number of statements and inferences made that seem unsupported unless you delve further into the references. I found myself wondering about a few seeming leaps in logic and occasionally about conflicting ideas. Below is an example.

Several of the studies were using small sample sizes requiring t-distributions. It’s hard to see many of the findings to be much more than anecdotal evidence when you are interviewing 6 people. A specific example would be the quantitative discussion that 20% of women failed a course over a 4 year period only to find out the study was only involved 10 women. It’s hard to follow the sweeping generalizations on such evidence. It is also a little frightening that the evolving military attitude toward female combat fitness could be based on that kind of data. I only hope more data pours in as the years go by and all of us can have an honest look at what happened without the bias of our preconceived notions.

Recommendation

This one was difficult to get through.

Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be

Background

Published in 2015, “Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be” by Frank Bruni challenges the notion that attending an elite college is the only path to success and happiness. Bruni argues that students should prioritize finding a college where they can thrive academically and personally rather than focusing solely on prestigious institutions. Drawing on research and interviews with students and professionals, Bruni advocates for a more holistic approach to college admissions and highlights the achievements of individuals who have found fulfillment outside of the Ivy League.

Where You Go In Not Who You'll Be
Where You Go In Not Who You’ll Be

My Thoughts

This book was heavily aligned with my personal beliefs about higher education and what “where you go” says about your potential and character. I have a saying that “nothing decreases your respect for a degree more than earning it.” I didn’t walk for my undergrad but I do remember looking down the line of people in my graduate program and thinking that each one of them had the same degree I had. Since I worked with them, I knew who didn’t do the work, who didn’t know the content, and who wouldn’t have graduated if they didn’t ride the coattails of their group, which only received top marks because someone else did all the work. Of course, this is a microcosm of the greater system, but it illustrates the college experience can vary even at the same institution. Imagine the variance of experiences across all the world’s centers of learning.

I also remember talking to a young lady who just finished her BS from Harvard. I was suitably impressive and I asked her what it was in. “German” was her excited reply. Having studied German in high school and a bit in college, I started speaking to her in German. Long story short, I didn’t speak much German. She didn’t understand much German (admitted it was me speaking it), but her level seemed to be about a first year student. Yet, she had a BS from Harvard. I was pretty disappointed in Harvard and that has colored my thoughts on the subject ever since.

Where you go does matter, but not for the reasons you might think. Go to Harvard if you want to study business or law and cost isn’t a factor. Those connections may mean something to you down the line. However, find the school that speaks to your wants and needs. I was very happy with my education from a state school and I feel it has served me well.

Recommendation

Given the soaring costs of tuition and the growing ubiquity of college educated people, this message needs to be heard.

The Age of Deer

Background

Published in 2016, “The Age of Deer” by Erika Howsare is an exploration of humanity’s ecological interdependence with the deer population, blending memoir, natural history, and cultural analysis. Howsare’s book takes readers in her personal journey as she observes, interacts with, and reflects upon the behavior and symbolism of deer in different cultures and in her rural Virginia surroundings. She attempts to view human interaction with deer through several perspectives and through several lenses.

The Age of Deer
The Age of Deer

My Thoughts

At times the book is surprisingly insightful and touched on information and situations, of which I was not aware. However, it is all through the eyes of someone who is still squeamish at the sight of blood and has obvious distaste for hunters. Through the story arc of the book, she does find grudging respect for those who hunt (fortunately they were family members). Still, she seems to want it tied up in a bow of nobility and need. Something akin to, ‘The hunter must hunt to survive and must reverence the creature on which they feed.’

Regardless, she seemed to do her homework and the book is well written. Even if she had to hold her nose through the project, she did provide some interesting facts.

Recommendation

This was hard to get through for me but I’m glad I read it.

Listen: On Music Sound and Us

Background

Published in 2023, “Listen: On Music, Sound, and Us,” by Mark Doffman is an insightful exploration into the world of music and sound and how they profoundly influence our lives. Doffman delves into the essence of listening, examining how we interact with sounds and music, and what these interactions reveal about our humanity. The book interweaves personal stories, scientific research, and cultural analysis to demonstrate how sound and music shape our experiences, relationships, and identities. Through a series of engaging narratives, Doffman invites readers to reconsider their auditory experiences and the role of listening in understanding the world and connecting with others. This work is not just about music’s aesthetic and cultural dimensions but also about its power to affect us on deeply personal and universal levels.

Listen: On Music Sound and Us
Listen: On Music Sound and Us

My Thoughts

This book was a novel approach in that it didn’t judge whatever anyone enjoyed. I found myself reflecting on past experiences with the intent just to enjoy it. That in itself was worth the read.

Recommendation

Good read.

A Stinky History of Toilets

Background

“A Stinky History of Toilets” is an engaging and educational book that delves into the fascinating evolution of toilets throughout history. With a blend of humor and fact, the book explores how different cultures have approached sanitation and the technological advancements that have led to the modern bathroom. From ancient latrines and the elaborate sewer systems of Rome to the inventiveness of the Victorian era and beyond, the narrative offers readers a unique perspective on a subject often taken for granted. This book not only provides a historical overview but also sheds light on the social and environmental implications of toilets, highlighting their critical role in public health and hygiene. With its entertaining style and informative content, “A Stinky History of Toilets” makes the history of this essential invention accessible and interesting to a wide audience, revealing the profound impact toilets have had on civilization and daily life.

A Stinky History of Toilets
A Stinky History of Toilets

My Thoughts

Toilets are one of those things we miss when we are without them. I have always been fascinated by the cultural differences in this very human activity. From the Captain Kirkish seats in Japan to the simple hole in the ground, we all have to go sometime. Even in my area, I have friends who live and die by their toilet seat bidets and swear their lives are the better for it. While I haven’t jumped on the bandwagon, I think it is a good idea to know your way isn’t the only way.

Recommendation

This was a fun book written in a simple style to educate everyone.

The Four Loves

Background

Published in 1960, “The Four Loves” is a non-fiction book written by C.S. Lewis on the nature of love. In this insightful work, Lewis explores love from a philosophical and Christian perspective. Expounding on four distinct categories of love:

  1. Storge: This refers to familial or natural affection, the love between family members, or the love that arises naturally, such as the love between parents and children.
  2. Philia: This represents friendship and the love between friends. It encompasses loyalty, camaraderie, and mutual respect.
  3. Eros: Eros refers to romantic or passionate love. It is associated with desire, attraction, and physical intimacy.
  4. Agape: Agape is unconditional love, often seen as divine or selfless love. It is characterized by compassion, generosity, and a genuine concern for the well-being of others.

Lewis delves into the complexities and nuances of each type of love. He examines their strengths, potential pitfalls, and how they relate to one another. Drawing from literature, theology, and personal experiences, Lewis offers profound reflections on the meaning and significance of love in our lives. “The Four Loves” is a timeless exploration of human relationships and emotions that continues to resonate with readers, offering wisdom and understanding on the nature of love.

The Four Loves
The Four Loves

My Thoughts

I can’t heap enough praise on this book. C.S. Lewis does not tell a story here, rather he is explaining, as plain as he can, the nature of love. I went through it a number of times and still think I’m just scratching the surface.

Recommendation

Read this book!

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment

Background

Published in 2010, “Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love” is a self-help book written by Amir Levine and Rachel S.F. Heller. Drawing on extensive research in psychology and neuroscience, the book explores the concept of adult attachment and how it influences our romantic relationships. The authors present three attachment styles—secure, anxious, and avoidant—and explain how each style affects our behaviors, emotions, and expectations in relationships. They provide insights into the dynamics of attachment and offer practical advice on how to navigate challenges, improve communication, and build healthier, more fulfilling connections with our partners. By understanding our own attachment style and that of our partners, “Attached” seeks to provide valuable tools and strategies for creating and maintaining lasting love and security in relationships.

Attached
Attached

My Thoughts

I try to read another relationship book every so often to constantly improve my marriage and family relationships. Most tend to be pretty much the same but this one had a different spin. Of course, your upbringing and prior experiences would color your relationships but Levine and Heller were much more specific in their thoughts. I’m convinced that relationships aren’t quite as generalizable as they were made out to be here but I liked their take on how to cope with the various circumstances.

Recommendation

I talked about this one with my wife… High praise for these type of books.

Major Decisions

Background

Published in 2021, “Major Decisions” by Henry Eyring explores the complexities and challenges of college and making significant life choices. The book offers a balanced perspective on the decision-making process delving into various factors that influence major decisions, including personal values, societal pressures, and practical considerations. Eyring provides strategies and tools to navigate to help make decisions while emphasizing the importance of self-reflection, gathering information, and seeking guidance.

Major Decisions
Major Decisions

My Thoughts

There are a good many things in this book that I wish I had known before I started the college process or what I call the “unscripted” time after High School. (Of course, I don’t know that I would have listened if someone told me. In fact, they likely did…) I liked how Eyring broke down how to find out what you want to do and where to go from there. What would have been very handy was the idea that you should go to the school who caters to your needs.

Recommendation

Great book and worth the read.

Limitless

Background

Published in April of 2020, “Limitless” by Jim Kwik is a self-help book that explores methods and techniques to enhance cognitive abilities and unlock one’s full potential. With a focus on optimizing memory, learning, and overall brain performance, Kwik offers strategies and exercises to improve mental clarity, focus, and retention. Through anecdotes and insights, the book provides tools to overcome limitations, boost creativity, and cultivate a growth mindset.

Limitless
Limitless

My Thoughts

I remember when this book came out as the author hit the podcast circuit and did shows on a few that I was listening to at the time. I was interested but not enough to get the book. About a month ago, a Marine LtCol told me this would be an excellent book for a new course at the University where I work. He even went ahead and bought me a copy of the book. Thank you!

I have been reading it off and on since I received my copy. I’ve done some in print and some in audio but this isn’t a book you just read through and it’s done. This is a book that requires effort and exercises which slowed down my consumption considerably. I’ve enjoyed the process of getting through it but there wasn’t a ton of hidden gems that I was hoping to find. (Perhaps I have just read too many books that are similar. In fact, “Atomic Habits” was referenced directly in this book.) I will keep at the exercises and see where it takes me.

Recommendation

A great read but will take some time if you put the effort in.

Raising Your Spirited Child

Background

Published way back in 1991, “Raising Your Spirited Child” by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka is a guidebook for parents who have children with intense and challenging personalities. Kurcinka identifies these children as “spirited” and explains that they possess qualities such as high energy, sensitivity, persistence, and emotional intensity that, when properly channeled, can lead to great creativity, resilience, and success. However, she also acknowledges that these same qualities can cause conflicts with parents, teachers, and peers if not managed properly. Kurcinka provides practical strategies for understanding and nurturing spirited children, including tips for managing behavior, communicating effectively, and promoting healthy development. She emphasizes the importance of accepting and appreciating a child’s individuality and working with their unique strengths and weaknesses to help them thrive.

Raising Your Spirited Child
Raising Your Spirited Child

My Thoughts

I was very surprised to learn the book was from 1991 as even I was thinking, “This kid just needs a good beating…” a few times in the book. That was somewhat tongue in cheek though as I agree with most of her ideas.

There is a fine line between being sensitive to a child’s needs and being enabling or overindulgent. As a parent, I feel like I tread on that line on a daily basis.

Recommendation

Definitely worth the read and attention. Even if you don’t agree, the book will make you think a little bit about why you think the things you do.