Background
Published in 2015, “Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be” by Frank Bruni challenges the notion that attending an elite college is the only path to success and happiness. Bruni argues that students should prioritize finding a college where they can thrive academically and personally rather than focusing solely on prestigious institutions. Drawing on research and interviews with students and professionals, Bruni advocates for a more holistic approach to college admissions and highlights the achievements of individuals who have found fulfillment outside of the Ivy League.
My Thoughts
This book was heavily aligned with my personal beliefs about higher education and what “where you go” says about your potential and character. I have a saying that “nothing decreases your respect for a degree more than earning it.” I didn’t walk for my undergrad but I do remember looking down the line of people in my graduate program and thinking that each one of them had the same degree I had. Since I worked with them, I knew who didn’t do the work, who didn’t know the content, and who wouldn’t have graduated if they didn’t ride the coattails of their group, which only received top marks because someone else did all the work. Of course, this is a microcosm of the greater system, but it illustrates the college experience can vary even at the same institution. Imagine the variance of experiences across all the world’s centers of learning.
I also remember talking to a young lady who just finished her BS from Harvard. I was suitably impressive and I asked her what it was in. “German” was her excited reply. Having studied German in high school and a bit in college, I started speaking to her in German. Long story short, I didn’t speak much German. She didn’t understand much German (admitted it was me speaking it), but her level seemed to be about a first year student. Yet, she had a BS from Harvard. I was pretty disappointed in Harvard and that has colored my thoughts on the subject ever since.
Where you go does matter, but not for the reasons you might think. Go to Harvard if you want to study business or law and cost isn’t a factor. Those connections may mean something to you down the line. However, find the school that speaks to your wants and needs. I was very happy with my education from a state school and I feel it has served me well.
Recommendation
Given the soaring costs of tuition and the growing ubiquity of college educated people, this message needs to be heard.